Labels can be constricting, and while they’re not that they are bad, a lot of people do not fall into the gay, straight, or bisexual labels, but find themselves identifying more with the term “queer” or sexually fluid. It’s okay to not have a label. All that matters is practicing safe and consensual sex with whomever it may be.

Anger's such a powerful emotion because it allows you to carve out space and hold your boundaries in a way that shame and fear can kind of incapacitate you. While there are pros and cons, anger is one of the few emotions that really, I think, shores you up and you can push it back on things.